Happily incomplete and ever growing into more

“Want to be happy?

Stop trying to be perfect.”

– Brene Brown

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If you are perfect, you will stop growing and that cannot be. Perfection is done and you can never be done. You are forever expanding and growing. It’s an eternal journey. A good place to be in vibrationally is – “I am happily incomplete and ever growing into more”

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Are you holding on even though it’s painful?

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The path of least resistance has value…

“There are a lot of people in your life that you’re holding there as if you need to prove it to yourself that you can get along with anybody, when the reality of it is that the path of least resistance doesn’t include most of them.”

– Abraham

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Why do people behave negatively?

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“When someone behaves poorly, it’s always because they’ve forgotten how powerful they really are, how beautiful life is, and how much they’re loved. Always.”

― Mike Dooley

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It’s only when someone has not felt free or worthy or loved for a long time, does he/she feel the desire to behave in a way which hurts or scares others….it’s like if someone puts a pillow on your face…you will flail about desperate for air….someone making a choice to behave negatively is like this desperate cry to feel better… the negative choice may help in order to feel relief but that relief will be very temporary….the predominant and consistent relief which one wants will only come through alignment and one who is aligned never feels inspired to hurting or scaring others…the two vibrations are different….

The above is not to justify someone’s behavior but to help understand the behavior as only when we understand, can we feel better about it….feeling better is important if we want to move on with a light heart with regard to someone’s negative behavior…and when we are ready to feel better, that is when we reconnect to our freedom i.e. our freedom to feel what we “want” to feel…

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